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Because it is water-based, a few drops of water or a little more lube will revive the glide if it starts to absorb. To make inserting a menstrual cup or disc easier, apply a small amount to the rim. Use within 12 months of opening. Patch test before first use if you have very sensitive skin, and stop using if irritation occurs.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eDame Aloe Lube FAQs\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003ch4\u003eIs Dame Aloe Lube safe to use with silicone toys?\u003c\/h4\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eYes. It is water-based, so it is safe with silicone toys as well as glass, metal and ABS plastic. It will not degrade silicone the way silicone-based lubes can.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch4\u003eDoes Dame Aloe Lube contain CBD?\u003c\/h4\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eNo. The formula contains hemp seed extract (Cannabis Sativa Seed Extract), which is a botanical skin-conditioning ingredient. 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Light it to fill the room with a fresh, green scent, and within about 15 to 20 minutes the melted wax becomes a silky, skin-warm oil you can pour straight onto the body for massage.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eIts blend of plant-based waxes and nourishing oils has a low melting point, so the oil settles just above body temperature: comfortably warm rather than hot. It glides easily, absorbs without leaving skin greasy, and leaves it feeling soft and conditioned.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eThe scent: green tea, fig and Virginia cedarwood\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eMelt Together is the freshest of the three Dame candles. Bright green tea opens onto soft, slightly sweet fig, settling into the dry warmth of Virginia cedarwood. 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It spreads easily, sinks in without a greasy film, and leaves skin soft, supple and conditioned.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eThe botanicals: kava kava infused\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eSoft Touch is infused with kava kava, a root long used in Pacific Island cultures as part of calming rituals. Paired with the candle's warm scent, it makes this the one to reach for when you want to slow right down at the end of the day.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eThe scent: benzoin, guaiac wood and sandalwood\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eSweet, vanilla-like benzoin resin meets smoky guaiac wood and creamy sandalwood. 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